Talking with Catholic Friends and Family

Available August 2005 from Harvest House Publishers
 



What former Roman Catholic priests and nuns are saying about

Talking with Catholic Friends and Family 

Talking with Catholic Friends and Family is a refreshingly accurate and readable presentation of Catholic thinking in laymen’s terms. McCarthy has chosen typical, not exceptional, examples of his conversations with real people and interwoven biblical with Catholic doctrine to create a brightly contrasting mosaic. I recognized every one of the situations and couldn’t help thinking as I read: What oft was thought, but ne’er so well expressed.

Mary Kraus, Former Franciscan Sister

 Talking with Catholic Friends and Family goes to the heart of the matter. The author has a unique gift for explaining complex issues in an uncomplicated way. I wholeheartedly recommend this book both to seeking Catholics and to those who would help them.

Vince O’Shaughnessy, Former Diocesan Priest

 If you like true stories, you’ll love Talking with Catholic Friends and Family. It’s about real people and events (including some related to my own life). I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in the spiritual needs of Catholics.

Bob Bush, Former Jesuit Priest

 Talking with Catholic Friends and Family will make you laugh and will make you cry. A collection of real life stories, it illustrates both the humorous and the tragic sides of living life as a Catholic. May God use this book to bring many into the full light of the gospel.

Bartholomew F. Brewer, Former Discalced Carmelite Priest

Talking with Catholic Friends and Family is a down ­to ­earth account of the beliefs, hopes, doubts, and fears of the Catholic people. Loaded with practical insights from God’s Word, it provides the truth that sets people free.

Wilma Sullivan, Former Sister of Mercy

 Through the mouths of Catholics, this book presents what is really going on inside Roman Catholicism. A valuable tool for those who want to understand Catholicism.      

Joseph Tremblay, Former Priest of the Oblates of Mary Immaculate

 This book is an excellent resource. Loaded with carefully researched information, it provides a biblical analysis of where Roman Catholicism has gone wrong. Through it you will better understand how Catholics think and be able to explain to them the good news of Jesus Christ.

Yvonne Freeman, Former Sister of the Holy Family

 I read this book with enthusiasm and identification. Enthusiasm because the author has explained so well how the doctrines of Roman Catholicism affect the lives of the Catholic people. Identi­fication because the many stories found in it caused me to recall my own search for God as a Catholic nun.

Rocio Pestańa Segovia, Former Franciscan Nun

 In sharing the gospel with Catholics, I have long prayed for a book that would clearly explain the good news of Jesus Christ through stories. I thank God that such a book now exists. In How to Talk to Catholics the reader will find the message of God’s grace spoken in love. To God be the glory.

Richard Bennett, Former Dominican Priest



 


Table of Contents & Internet Links

Links to each of the Internet websites mentioned in this book are maintained at this website for the convenience of the reader. Refer below to the chapter in which the link is mentioned.

Prologue

Part One—Talking to Catholics About Salvation

1.         Nobody Knows

2.         Are You Calling Me a Pharisee?

3.         Christ Has Done His 99%

4.         Give Me the Works, Father

5.         Good People Go to Heaven

6.         What Must I Do to be Saved?

http://www.gnfc.org/cardsdownload

Downloadable cards for sharing the gospel with Catholics.

 

 Part Two—Talking to Catholics About the Mass

7.         Is It Really?

8.         I Never Heard That at Mass

http://www.ewtn.com

http://www.ewtn.com/vlibrary/search.asp

One of the best sites for Catholic documents is the website of the Eternal Word Television Network. Check under “Libraries/Document Library”

http://www.ewtn.com/library/COUNCILS/TRENT22.HTM

You can find the Church’s defense for adding water to the wine in the record of the Documents of the Council of Trent, Session 22, “The Doctrine Concerning the Sacrifice of the Mass,” chapter 7.

9.         We Got It in a Flash!

http://www.nccbuscc.org/nab

Knowing which Bible passages will be read at Mass each Sunday can be a useful aid when talking to Catholics. The Church determines the readings. This means that on a given day the readings are the same in every Catholic Church throughout the world. The readings are on a three year cycle, known as Years A, B, and C. The rotation is sometimes printed at the back of Catholic Bibles. You can also find it on the Internet, such as at the site for the Catholic New American Bible.

Part Three—Talking to Catholics About Authority

10.       Be Not Afraid

11.       Lord, I Apologize in Advance

12.       Once a Catholic, Always a Catholic

Part Four—Talking to Catholics About Leaving

13.       My Children Are All Defecting

14.       I Love My Parents

15.       The Reformation is Over!

http://www.firstthings.com/ftissues/ft9405/articles/mission.html

"Evangelicals and Catholics Together" and a complete list of Catholic and Evangelical signers is available at the website of First Things.

http://www.lutheranworld.org

http://www.lutheranworld.org/Special_Events/LWF-

1999Official_Documents.html

http://www.vatican.va/

http://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/pontifical_councils/chrstuni/documents/

rc_pc_chrstuni_doc_31101999_cathluthjoint-declaration_en.html

Despite their great historical differences, in 1999 the Lutherans and Catholics announced: We are “now able to articulate a common understanding of our justification by God’s grace through faith in Christ.” Before joining the celebration, however, you should read the "The Joint Declaration on Justification. It is available at the Lutheran World Federation website and at the Vatican website.

 

16.       Will I Be Excommunicated?

http://www.osv.com

An effective way to keep current on the Roman Catholic faith is to subscribe to a Catholic periodical. If you want to understand the American scene from a conservative perspective, subscribe to Our Sunday Visitor.

http://www.natcath.com

 If you want a progressive viewpoint of the Church internationally and in America, consider an independent newsweekly such as the National Catholic Reporter.

http://www.vatican.va/news_services/or/or_eng/index.html

For local Catholic news, subscribe to the official paper of your Catholic diocese. If you want the Church’s official position, subscribe to its international weekly newspaper L’Osservatore Romano.

http://www.vatican.va/archive/catechism/ccc_toc.htm

 The most useful aid to understanding Catholicism is the Catechism of the Catholic Church. It is the official summary of the Catholic faith produced by the Vatican. It’s available in bookstores everywhere. It’s also accessible online at the Vatican’s website.

 

Appendix ACards for Sharing the Gospel with Catholics

http://www.gnfc.org/cardsdownload

Downloadable cards for sharing the gospel with Catholics.

Appendix B—Doctrinal Index to the Catechism of the Catholic Church

Notes

Subject Index



Authors’ Prologue

 

A Vast Mission Field

 Over one billion people strong, and more all the time, they make up one sixth of the world’s population. They are Central and South Americans (89%), Europeans (41%), Oceanians (27%), North Americans (24%), Africans (17%), and Asians (3%). They live in Brazil (135 million), Mexico (84 million), and the United States (70 million). They are Hispanic, Filipino, French, Irish, Polish, Italian, German, Vietnamese, Indian, Korean, Chinese—you name it; they’re it. They’re your neighbor, your grocer, your doctor, your local politician, the guy who takes your money at the gas station. They’re the professional athlete on television, the big-time criminal in the papers, the actor/director with a shelf full of Academy Awards. They may be your mother, your father, sister, brother, aunt and uncle, the whole clan. From the pope in his jet to the penniless immigrant newly arrived in your country, they’re your neighbors, your coworkers, the people all around you. Collectively they form the membership of the largest organization on earth. They’re Catholics, meaning universal, and as their name indicates they’re everywhere.

            They are also a people who need your help. A long time ago—it’d be hard to say when—the bishops of the Catholic Church veered off course, taking the Catholic people with them. At first the errors were small, but with time they accumulated. Eventually priests, theologians, and even average church-going Catholics noticed they were in uncharted waters. Some complained, calling for reform. They received only trouble for their efforts. Headstrong and angry, the bishops of the Catholic Church arrested some, executed others. They called a council, and formally denounced the dissenters as heretics, putting them outside the Church and the salvation it offered. The bishops codified their many errors, making them dogmas (irrevocable doctrines which all Catholics must believe). The result is that today, some 450 years later, the gospel of Jesus Christ is no longer preached from Catholic pulpits, and the people, though often zealous for the practice of religion, are for the most part unsaved and without a true knowledge of God.

            This book is about how you can help them. It is written for Christians who love God and love the Catholic people. It’s a book about how to understand Catholics and how to communicate to them the gospel of Jesus Christ.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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